Here's my question. From a lot of what I've heard people talk about how they don't have a sex drive or they just plain don't WANT to ever have sex. I've heard some people say sometimes they get urges and want them to go away.
But are there people who are disappointed they have no sex drive or find the act of sex boring?
Maybe I'm a romantic at heart. Or read too much slash fiction *heh* But I have been in love before, and I have been very close to a person where I feel comfortable enough touching and being naked... I enjoy the idea of making the other person feel good, and I've had good sexual experiences, but it's not a need for me. When I'm with someone I'm in love with, I feel like I SHOULD want to be close, intimate and sexual with that person. I feel like I should want to kiss them. And sometimes it's fun, but for the most part, I get nothing out of making out. *heh* I really just don't like it.
Are there other people who are disappointed that sex is ... well... boring to them? And not really in the sense of "well maybe you didn't have a good sexual experience or maybe you need to find out what you like" And I realize not everyone has good sex until they meet "the one", but for me it's more than that. For me I just... don't want to, and I'm kind of sad I don't want to because I'm a very sensual person and the idea of having a sexual relationship with someone I love really makes me happy.
Anyone else like that?
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