I am not going to yell.
I am NOT going to yell.
Ahem. Now that I have that out of the way…
We can argue until the cows come home about whether or not asexuals have a right to claim part of queer space or should be welcome there or however the hell you want to word it. I've seen queer spaces welcome aces and queer spaces be confused by aces and queer spaces reject aces, so let's not say that there's one hard and fast way that the queer community reacts.
However, it's seriously becoming a dead horse.
If people MUST continue to debate this, I ask you to be CIVIL, to use I-statements, and to think before you post.
If I get reports of personal attacks, viciousness, or too much more bullshit rather than polite and constructive conversation, I will freeze threads. If anyone in particular is becoming a specific problem, there is a darn good possibility you will be warned or even banned.
Please don't make me do this. I don't want to be the mean mod. I like to think this community is mature enough that we can know when to step back and let go and breathe and accept differences of opinions without me coming down and dictating how we should all behave.
I'd like to request that we place a moratorium on the conversation for now; it comes up in here every so often, so it's not like it won't be brought up ever again.
I would like you all to feel safe to express your opinions here, but that can only happen if tempers can remain cool and people can act respectfully towards one another.
If you have any questions for me, feel free to ask them here. :)