I just joined this community but I confess to having been a lurker for two years. Actually, it was this community that started my exploration of asexuality. I wanted to let you know that I wrote a piece on my asexual experience and my road to claiming my asexuality for elephantjournal, which is an online magazine for which I am a writer and apprentice editor.
Here it is: http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/01/claiming-my-asexuality-jayleigh-lewis/
I linked to some of swankivy's writings--I know she is a member here. I really, really appreciate the clarity with which she writes. It has helped me immensely.